Back in November, we drove to New York for a few days to show my parents around. I would consider it as one of the most stressful trips I’ve taken so far with my kids, mostly because I was trying make sure that my parents get to see as much tourist attractions as possible while also trying to accommodate my kids’ schedule. I was always rushing to enjoy where we were because I knew we had to leave soon so the kids could take their nap on time. So today, I’ll be sharing with you what to do (and not to do) to survive sightseeing in New York with your toddler.
Don’t Take Your Car
Being the planner that I’ve always been, this trip wouldn’t have been complete if I didn’t create our itinerary. In all fairness to myself, I did ask my husband to review it and asked if it was too ambitious considering our kids are going with us; he said it wasn’t and that it was totally doable. But, guess what? Nothing went according to our plan. And it wasn’t the unpredictability of having toddlers in tow that ruined our plans, it was the struggle to find a parking spot in New York.
When we arrived in New York (Wednesday night), my husband was able to find a spot in a street that needs to be cleaned on Thursday mornings; so the next morning, he needed to park our car somewhere else before we had to leave the apartment. We were planning to have breakfast at the nearby McDonald’s and just walk so we won’t have to take the car and struggle with parking again. However, he didn’t find any parking spot after looking for more than an hour so we just decided to take the car with us, then left it at a paid parking garage (after breakfast) and just took Uber to go to Manhattan. For the entire time we were there, that has always been our struggle – where to park the car.
Book A Hotel In Manhattan
Since our trip was just spontaneous, we didn’t have enough time to book accommodations and get a good deal like we always do. Booking hotel rooms in Manhattan a week before our trip was pricier than what we’d hope; so my husband suggested that we check out Airbnb. He did find an apartment in Bronx that cost less than a day’s rate of the Manhattan hotels. I usually check out the location to find out how far it is from the attractions but didn’t this time because we were running out of time. Of course, we went ahead and booked it. I booked the apartment before I created the itinerary; so it wasn’t until a few days before our trip that I found out that the apartment is an hour away to most attractions.
Normally, if we traveled without the kids, I wouldn’t mind if our accommodation is that far. But since having kids, I always consider their schedule whenever we’re going somewhere. I NEVER want to adjust their schedule just so my husband and I could go wherever we want to. Usually, whenever we need to go somewhere, I always make sure that we’re home in time for their nap time, or they’ve already taken their nap and be home before their bed time. And just like most trips we’ve taken, I planned to go back to the apartment before their nap time and have them take their nap there, then leave shortly after they’ve woken up to continue our sightseeing.
But since our apartment is an hour away from the attractions, that didn’t happen. We failed to have them take their nap conveniently. On our first day, they took their naps in the cabs and Uber cars that we took. On our second day, however, we managed to get them to take their naps in the apartment but it took them A WHILE before they did because they took a shorter nap on the way back to the apartment.
It might cost you more, but if you could afford it, book a hotel in Manhattan. That way, it will be more convenient for your little one and the whole family. And it will also help keep your sanity.
Prepare To Change Diapers In The Most Unconventional Ways
And I thought most establishments in this country are kid-friendly? They’re not!!! Okay, maybe it’s just those places that we’ve visited. But, I’ve had to change poopy diapers either at the park while I asked my parents to cover the kids with our coats so they have their privacy; or while the kids are standing up in the bathroom because there’s no portable changing table in it. And how fun is it that my kids pooped A LOT while we were out and about. It was such a struggle for me; so maybe if you have a stroller with you, that would make diaper changing so much easier. We chose not to bring ours because we don’t have an umbrella stroller and ours would take up all of the space allotted for our luggages. And I didn’t know that we’re going to need it for this reason.
Nevertheless, we all had fun & my parents got to see most of the tourist attractions; even though we had long days all throughout our trip, especially the kids. And now, for the fun part, let me share with you what we ended up doing during our trip and some tips for your visit.
What We Ended Up Doing In New York
Liberty Island & Ellis Island – Ticket per person is $18 and that includes the audio tour, and exploring in both Liberty and Ellis Islands. They do offer different types of tickets which you could check out here.
Lunch – Jollibee – This is the most popular Filipino fast food restaurant; and not a lot of states is as lucky as New York to have one. We do have one in Virginia but it is a longer drive from where we live as compared to driving to New York. So whenever we go to New York, I always make sure that we dine here at least once. You can read more about Jollibee and what people think about it here.
Roosevelt Island – Taking the tram to go to Roosevelt Island costs $3 per person while going back to Manhattan costs a little less than $3 per person. There are also different ways to get to Roosevelt Island and you can check them out here. While at Roosevelt Island, you can take a shuttle for free to go around the island.
Dinner – Popeye’s – We were supposed to have dinner at another Filipino restaurant in Queens but we all had a long day especially the kids so we just decided to go back to the apartment after we visited Roosevelt Island and got food from Popeye.
Times Square & Empire State – The kids enjoyed Times Square a lot since they were able to run around; my daughter especially loved feeding and running after the birds. We then walked towards Empire State but didn’t plan to go up the observatory because we’ve read how long the line could take. And since we have toddlers with us, we anticipated that they wouldn’t love that so we only planned to have some pictures taken inside the building, as well as outside where there’ll be a view of the Empire State. However, if you are planning to enjoy the view the Empire State offers, you can find more information about the different ticket types here.
Lunch – Shanghai Asian Manor – We planned to have lunch at Chinatown on our first day but didn’t get to go until our second day. We went to Shanghai Asian Manor, a highly-rated Chinese restaurant (based on my Google search). The serving was really fast but they weren’t that busy yet since we were there a bit early. Everything we ordered was really good! You can check out the reviews I found from TripAdvisor here.
Nap time – We then went back to the apartment and had the kids nap there for a couple of hours. We were planning to go to Central Park after they had woken up from their nap but they didn’t wake up until 4. It was getting dark so there won’t be much of a sightseeing to do so we decided to postpone our Central Park visit until the next day. We just headed straight to my aunt’s apartment in Manhattan shortly after they woke up.
Dinner – Manhattan – We had dinner at my aunt’s apartment in Manhattan. It was so much fun catching up with my relatives and the kids had so much fun meeting them; especially the attention they are getting from our relatives.
Central Park – We walked around Central Park in our last day in the city. My son enjoyed walking and running around the grass-filled leaves; while my daughter loved picking chestnuts up from the ground. Then we went back to my aunt’s apartment in Manhattan where we had brunch before we drove back home.
As stressful as this New York trip went, I still plan to visit New York with my kids in the future. Just like any trip that we take, I will just make sure to be better and wiser in planning to ensure a trip that’s as smooth as possible.
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