Have A Grateful Heart

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I have been guest blogging at BayArt and have recently published an article there. BayArt is all about bringing inspiration and happiness; and creating a value and making a difference. Of course, my usual posts wouldn’t be appropriate there;  so I had to turn on a switch that hasn’t been turned on for a while. This is the first time I have written something like this for years and I actually enjoyed it. Without further ado, here it is. I hope you like it.

 
I haven’t always been grateful. I used to be a shallow carefree person who was only interested in getting what I didn’t have; I had taken for granted what I already had. Sure, I would pray every night before I sleep and say thanks for all the blessings but I didn’t really know deep in my heart what those blessings were. But, as probably most of you have already experienced, life happened and it took me on a roller coaster ride – a very long one.

I’ve been through a lot; people who knew me really well had told me that my life would be a great story for Maalaala Mo Kaya. (It is a Philippine drama anthology series that features weekly real-life stories or anecdotes of common people or even famous celebrities and personalities through letter sending.1) I’ve had friends and relatives betray me, I’ve been taken advantage of by people close to me, I’ve had my heart broken too many times, (without going into too much details) I’ve had my own share of family drama (several huge ones), and so much more. My life, as if a movie, has a lot of villains in it. Just when I thought everything is going smoothly, that’s when they’ll come into the picture and do something despicable just because they could.

But because of all these, I came to know who my real friends are; I re-connected with my then-friend who’s now my husband and gave me 2 beautiful kids; I realized the true value of family; and I discovered a whole new level of love for my parents. Somewhere along the way, it changed me; it made me a grateful person.

I’ve realized there is so much to be thankful for despite of all the trials and challenges. I’ve come to appreciate whatever life throws at me, be it joy or sorrow; for without the sorrows, I wouldn’t be the appreciative, stronger, and wiser person that I am today. I’ve grown to understand that I should be grateful for the little things (that are so easy to overlook) as well – that delicious meal prepared by my husband on weeknights, the couple of hours of video call with my parents almost every day, the weekends spent with my kids, the joy of catching up with friends who live miles away, the hour-long afternoon nap I am able take during weekends, and so much more.

I’ve recognized that I already have what I need in life – my loving parents, my very supportive husband, my 2 amazing kids, and a few but true good friends. And they are the greatest blessings that I have.

Now, when I pray at night and say thanks for all the blessings that I have, I say each and every blessing with heartfelt gratitude. And that is why, before my daughter goes to bed, we pray and we say thank you for each of the blessings that she has received because I want her to grow up with a grateful heart.

*Originally posted in BayArt.

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17 Comments
  • Bee
    Posted at 01:50h, 24 August Reply

    Beautiful post. It’s true, a grateful heart is a happy heart.

    • Belle
      Posted at 01:50h, 24 August Reply

      Thank you. 😊

  • Jen
    Posted at 09:08h, 28 August Reply

    This is lovely. I feel the same way. Life can definitely have it’s very hard moments, but a grateful heart is my personal reset button for when times get tough and I need a little attitude change.

    Thank yo u so much for sharing this at the #happynow.linkup

    Hugs!

    • Belle
      Posted at 09:21h, 28 August Reply

      That is so true! Thank you for checking it out. Have a great weekend! 🙂

  • One Awesome Momma | Fun Fall Activities To Do With A Toddler
    Posted at 08:27h, 04 October Reply

    […] And, of course, celebrate thanksgiving. Every night before my daughter goes to bed (which I will be doing with my son soon), we pray and say thank you for each of the blessings that she has received which I think is a good way to teach her how to be appreciative of the little things in life and how to have a grateful heart. You can read more about that here. […]

  • michelle
    Posted at 17:40h, 27 October Reply

    That’s beautiful. I believe being grateful is the and helping others is the secret to happiness.

    • Belle
      Posted at 18:32h, 27 October Reply

      Thank you! I couldn’t agree more. 🙂

  • Striving Momma
    Posted at 18:45h, 27 October Reply

    This was a much-needed reality check. I often have to slow down and remind myself that everything isn’t awful; I have a lot to be grateful for! Sometimes I just need a reminder, though.

    • Belle
      Posted at 19:12h, 27 October Reply

      We all do; sometimes we become so preoccupied with what’s going on with our daily lives that we forget to appreciate even the little things in our lives. That’s why I always like to look at how my day has been at the end of it so I can say thank you for each of the things, even the littlest ones. I’m so happy you liked it. 🙂

  • Gloryanna
    Posted at 20:43h, 27 October Reply

    I think many people misunderstand and value quantity over quality in so many aspects of life–and you’ve hit the nail on the head here. Sounds like it a well-worth it journey 🙂

    • Belle
      Posted at 21:38h, 27 October Reply

      I agree! Thank you for reading it and I am glad you liked it. 🙂

  • Sane Mama
    Posted at 21:22h, 27 October Reply

    Life is definitely interesting. It can set us on a path, but it is you who became a better, more grateful person in the face of adversity. Good for you!

    • Belle
      Posted at 21:39h, 27 October Reply

      Thank you! You’ve said it very well. 🙂

  • Shan Walker (@shanGURUwalker)
    Posted at 12:19h, 28 October Reply

    Love this. Going through trials definitely makes us appreciate the things and the people in our lives that we should truly cherish.

    The How-to Guru

    • Belle
      Posted at 12:39h, 28 October Reply

      Thank you! I agree; we need the trials in our lives. 🙂

  • Shannon
    Posted at 01:12h, 31 October Reply

    This is so good! Thank you for sharing!

    • Belle
      Posted at 09:02h, 31 October Reply

      Thank you!

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